Thursday, April 29, 2010

Hot, Dry and Sunny

Living in America, especially in Manhattan and other cities where the residents depend on public transportation, we get into a routine of checking the weather before we head out the door for the day. Will I need a jacket, an umbrella, will my feet be cold in sandals or hot in boots? It's a dance we dance with Mother Nature and our trusty weather-(wo)man (who 80% of the time isn't so trusty in the end).

But in Israel...ah Israel. The weather there during the summer is hot, dry and sunny. And guess what? It's gonna stay hot, dry and sunny all summer long. None of these random summer storms, or unseasonably cool days. Just hot. Dry. And sunny. Packing just got a whole lot easier.



5 days til take off.

Saturday, April 17, 2010

Thank You, An Open Letter

I can't sleep. It's a grey and cool morning here in NYC. I've been up since Way-Too-Early-O'Clock and I went to bed at a stupidly late hour. But I can't sleep. I keep thinking of all of the things I have to do before my trip and all the people I still want to see before I am whisked away in that huge steel bird in the sky. The most pressing "task" on my mind that is causing this insomnia is a Thank You Letter that I have been wanting to write/been composing in my head for weeks, maybe months.

I've been thinking of all of the people in my life who I want to thank and all of the things I want to say, and I came to realize that it's basically the same message for you all with a few specific personal touches here and there. So I'm writing this Open Thank You Letter, if you will. Here we go...


Thank you. Thank you for your support. For letting me borrow your strength when my supply was all tapped out. For helping me move, both emotionally and physically. For the hundreds of minutes on your cellphone plan that you "donated" to my healing. For driving 5 hours each way because you knew I'd need you before I even knew it. For your unwavering belief in me. For your encouragement. For reminding me what I have to offer and what I deserve in return. For the countless dinners and endless drinks. For the FUN! For calling me out on my shit. For your wisdom and guidance. For flying me home to regroup. For leading by example by showing me that a true partnership does in fact exist. For letting me crash on your couch/bed/in your spare room. For not judging me. For letting me cry and then making me laugh, and knowing when I needed to do which. For the late night movie/cuddle sessions. For making my birthday the best ever! For your hugs and kisses. For simply being you. For loving each other and letting me live in that space, allowing me to breathe it in. For listening to my countless crazy stories of The Single Life in Manhattan and helping me explore this uncharted territory. For pushing me forward to follow my dreams, even though it meant leaving you for a while. For watching mindless television with me. For keeping me distracted. For making me face what I needed to face. For waving away my bitterness with your belief in people and in love. For your love. For being in my life - whether it was a recent appearance you made (some after far too many years) or a life long commitment you've stuck to. I do not say this part lightly: I would not have been able to get through these past few months without you. At one point or another, and sometimes multiple times, you have said to me how proud you are of me. Of my strength. Of my convictions. Of my determination. Of my bravery. I would have none of these things if I did not have you.

I do not know what this next chapter of my life has to offer, but I can tell you this much, you will be a part of it. And no matter what, know that my life is good now, the best it's been in far too long, and you played a leading role in making that happen. I cannot fully express how much appreciation I have for you, but I will spend the rest of my life trying.

To quote a beautiful song:
Here is the spring. Here is the spring.
While winter was raging something good had been blossoming.

Thank you for being my Spring.

With all my love,
Ayelet

You friend/sister/cousin/daughter/partner-in-crime

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Welcome Packet

Holy cow, two posts in one day?!

I got my Official Welcome Packet today. A lot of people have been asking me what a Kibbutz is and trying to grasp the experience I am about to embark upon (or is it: upon which I am about to embark)? Anyhoo....

Below is an excerpt from the Welcome Package that will help shed some light:


KIBBUTZ LIFE - WHAT IS KIBBUTZ?

Kibbutz means group in Hebrew. It is a modest name for something unique: a voluntary democratic community where people live and work together on a non-competitive basis. Its aim is to generate an economically and socially independent society founded on principles of communal ownership of property, social justice, and equality.

The first kibbutzim (plural of kibbutz) were organized by idealistic young Zionists who came to Palestine in the beginning of the 20th Century. Their dream was not just to settle the land it, but to build a whole new kind of society. Despite many hardships, they succeeded in creating a social system and a way of life which has played a crucial role in the development of the State of Israel both culturally and politically.

Over the years the kibbutzim have multiplied, prospered, and adapted themselves to changing realities. Today some 270 kibbutzim, varying in size from 80 to over 2,000 people, are scattered throughout Israel. With a total populace of around 120,000 they represent about 2.8 percent of Israel’s population.

In the early days of the kibbutz movement, all kibbutzim were based on a foundation of agriculture. These days, however, the economies of kibbutzim cannot be sustained on agriculture alone. Most kibbutzim have branched out into industry to increase their productivity. Kibbutz factories manufacture a wide variety of products from electronics, furniture, household appliances and plastics to farm machinery and irrigation systems.

Most kibbutz members work in some section of the kibbutz economy: orchards, factory, dairy, fishponds, or in one of its maintenance units. Routine jobs such as dining room duties are rotated among members. When too few members are available for a particular job, outside workers may be hired and paid wages or receive room and board on the kibbutz.


WHO LIVES ON KIBBUTZ?

Kibbutzim, like any other society, are made of individuals who are all different from one another. Some members of kibbutz identify strongly with the pioneer spirit that founded the kibbutz. Others, if not pioneers themselves, the children of the pioneers, are now grown up and have families of their own on the kibbutz. They are called “sabras”, or people who were born in Israel. (An interesting etymology that will give you a sense of Israeli character: “sabra” literally refers to a type of cactus fruit, which is hard and prickly on the outside, yet sweet and tender on the inside).

Many kibbutz members, however, will not fit this stereotypical image. Lots of kibbutzniks will look more or less like people from your hometown and in fact may even come from a place like your hometown. Many members of kibbutz are “olim” (immigrants) from foreign countries such as the United States, Australia, South Africa, Ethiopia, Russia or around Europe. Hebrew may not be their native language, but they all speak Hebrew, as it is the primary language spoken in Israel.

Some members of kibbutz are very old. Some of them were true pioneers in the early days of the founding of the state. Try to meet someone who was a founding member of the kibbutz where you are staying, and ask them to tell you stories about the early days of the kibbutz. It’s a great way to practice your Hebrew and learn some Israeli history at the same time!

Another significant group living on the kibbutz are the participants. What distinguishes a participant from a “chaver” (member) of the kibbutz? First, the participant lives on the kibbutz temporarily, while members stay for the long haul. Second, members have voting privileges which give them say in the issues of the kibbutz life; participants do not take part in that. Finally, members are eligible for a full use of all facilities on the kibbutz, while participants may not have access to certain facilities such as a ceramics studio or member’s moadon (clubhouse).

As a participant, remember that you are a guest in the home of the kibbutzniks. Because we come from a different culture, we view the grounds and facilities of the kibbutz differently than do members. For kibbutz members, the entire kibbutz is home, rather than a house with four walls. Take the kibbutz dining hall, for example. To the participant it looks like a cafeteria, which is public space. However, kibbutzniks see it as a dining room, which is private. Participants are essentially guests in the home of the kibbutzniks, and you should be respectful of that fact just as you would if you were visiting a friend in his or her house.


YOUR WORK ON THE KIBBUTZ:

Work will be your gateway into the kibbutz community; it will be a chance to meet the members of the kibbutz, and to gain their respect by showing that you can work responsibly. Working hard is a virtue on kibbutz! The well being of the kibbutz depends on its members dedicating themselves to their work, and your own work ethic will determine how the members relate to you.

The type of work you do on the kibbutz will depend on where you are needed. The work that you will be doing will depend on the season of the year as well as the needs of the kibbutz, but some common examples of jobs that volunteers do are laundry room, kitchen, dining hall, factory, gardening, agricultural work. Regardless of the specific job that you will be doing, your work is crucial in order for the kibbutz to function and you will be making an important contribution. The kibbutz will try to arrange the work according to preferences, but this may not always be possible. In this situation, patience and understanding is required. Many participants lack the agricultural skills and experiences which would make them more flexible with regard to work.

LIVING CONDITIONS:

Kibbutz life aims to take you away from the materialism of urban society, and it may lack some of the conveniences you are used to. For instance, the kibbutz telephone may be a ten-minute walk from your room. Trips to the bank, stores or cafes may mean getting out of the kibbutz. The living accommodations are dorm style, with two or three participants in a room with adjacent toilet and shower facilities. You will receive full board as well as sheets and blankets. Rooms will have basic furniture: a closet, a table, and a bed for each person.















(above is an example of what a modern-day Kibbutz looks like)

LAUNDRY:

Your laundry will be done at the kibbutz’s laundry facilities. Laundry is collected once a week and is generally returned within a couple of days. Please keep in mind that the people doing the laundry wash clothes for hundreds of people, so they cannot pay special attention to particular items. The kibbutz will not be held responsible for items damaged in the laundry.


THE CONDITIONS FOR THE VOLUNTEERS:

In each kibbutz, a volunteer leader is assigned to the volunteers. The volunteers' leader is the volunteer’s contact person in the kibbutz. The volunteers' leader is in charge of the volunteers in the kibbutz and any request or problem that the volunteers might have they can turn to the volunteers' leader. The first day in the kibbutz the volunteers' leader meets with the newly arrived volunteers explaining them the daily routines and rules in the kibbutz. The volunteers are taken on a short tour around the kibbutz and the different work branches are explained to them.

The volunteers live in rooms with between 2 to 4 people in each room (depending on the kibbutz and the season). Six days a week the volunteers work 8 hours a day in the kibbutz. The work is dependent on the availability and the need of the kibbutz, but if possible, the volunteers' leader is always willing to try to satisfy the individual requests of the volunteers.

The volunteers receive three meals a day in the kibbutz. Every day around noon, the kibbutz population, as well as the volunteers, is served a hot, delicious and nutritious lunch in the common dinning room. In some kibbutzim the common dinning room serves only breakfast and lunch. In this case, the volunteers are provided with a small kitchen with cooking facilities and groceries to cook dinner for themselves. The volunteers then cook and eat together.

Once a month, one-day outings are organized for the volunteers, and each three months a three-day tour is also arranged. The volunteers are free to use the sports facilities of the kibbutz and the swimming pool. In most kibbutzim, a pub and even a disco is arranged for the volunteers and the younger population.

The kibbutz insures the volunteers with an ambulant health insurance through the kibbutz. For any situation that demands ambulant health treatment, the volunteers can approach the kibbutz’ doctor and or nurse.

Each month the volunteers are given three free days. Together with the volunteer leader, the volunteers decide when to “use” the free days. An amount of approximately 80 US$ is given to the volunteers every month as pocket money.

Dinner plans

I've been emailing with my family in Israel to make arrangements for my arrival. This is getting so real.

I often make plans with friends in the city for dinner/drinks/what-have-you about a week or so in advance, sometimes more, depending on the week and the friend and the activity. And as I am about to leave for five months my Google Calendar is getting full really quickly. As I was looking over it, trying to fit another friend in before I say good-bye, it hit me...only a few weekends left before I'm in Israel! Here is what my next few Fridays look like:

Friday the 16th: Bar hopping with Hannah
Friday the 21st: Volunteering in Utah
Friday the 30th: Last Girls' Night in The City until October
Friday the 7th: Dinner with Julian and family in TEL AVIV!!!!!!!!!!

Just like I make dinner plans in the city, I am now making dinner plans in Israel!

A-maz-ing!

21 days til take-off!

Sunday, April 4, 2010

One Month!

One month from this exact moment I will be landing in London waiting to get on my flight to take me to Israel!

If you want to know what I'm feeling in this moment listen to this song:


So. Freaking. Excited.